A number of things about Hugh Hefner’s life sadden me. A particular one that comes to mind is the coining of the word “foreplay” in the Playboy Advisor column many years ago. Now, I’m no expert, but I remember when the whole thing was called making love rather than dividing it into three mechanical parts: foreplay, the act, and smoking a cigarette. Or a pipe
I guess that was about the same time as the male part of the equation began being graded as to their performance in one or the other of the steps. Or our perception that we were being graded, LOL
There was a grading system? Who knew?